May 20, 2022

The Collapse of the Traditional American Family

The Joint Economic Committee of the U.S. Congress has just produced an important new study titled “The Demise of the Happy Two-Parent Home.”

The report exhaustively presents data showing the shocking collapse of marriage and traditional family in America and then explores possible explanations for why it has happened.

In 1962, 71% of women ages 15-44 were married. By 2019, this was down to 42%.

In 1962, 5% of women ages 30-34 had never been married. By 2019, this was up to 35%.

In the 1960s, less than 1% of couples living together were not married. Today, it is over 12%.

And the percentage of births to unmarried women has risen from 5% in 1960 to 40% in 2018.

In 1970, 85% of children lived with two parents. By 2019, this was down to 70%.

The relevant questions are: Why should the collapse of marriage in the United States concern us? And why is this happening?

Regarding the first question, it depends on your values. To the large but dwindling number of Americans who care about traditional biblical morality, the collapse of marriage and family, the openness to other lifestyles prohibited by biblical morality, is of concern. It is not a healthy sign about what is happening in our culture.

For those whose concerns are more secular, the collapse of marriage is of concern because the practical results are not good.

A large body of research exists showing the social benefits of traditional marriage and family, and the social costs of their collapse.

There is the oft-quoted observation of Brookings Institution scholar Ron Haskins that American adults who follow three rules — finish high school; get a full-time job; and wait until at least age 21 to get married and have children — have a 2% chance of being poor and a 75% chance of being a middle-class wage earner.

In a recent interview, Nobel Prize-winning University of Chicago economist James Heckman observed: “The main barriers to developing effective policies for income and social mobility is fear of honest engagement in the changes in the American family and the consequences it has wrought. … The family is the source of life and growth. Families build values, encourage (or discourage) their children in school and out. Families — far more than schools — create or inhibit life opportunities.”

Why has traditional marriage and family so dramatically collapsed?

The report examines several possible factors, a major one being the dramatic growth in the welfare state supporting female heads of household.

According to the report, “The value of the safety net for single-mother families is 133 percent higher today than in 1940, and 56 percent higher than in 1960.”

Nevertheless, changes in behavior reflect changes in values. Why do values change?

Gallup has been asking since 1952, “How important would you say religion is in your own life — very important, fairly important or not very important.”

In 1952, 75% said “very important.” In 1970, this was down to about 60%, and by 1978, this was down to 52%.”

It was in this environment of a dramatic drop in Americans’ sense of the personal importance of religion that, in 1973, the Roe v. Wade decision legalized abortion.

A wave of court decisions banned religion from the public square. In 1962, prayer in public school was banished.

In 2002 Gallup polling, 45% said have a baby outside of marriage was morally acceptable. By 2015, this was up to 61%, and by 2019, it was up to 64%.

What seems clear is that the collapse of marriage and family that has been occurring in our nation is not occurring in a vacuum. Values are changing.

For those who are worried about the situation, who want to see marriage and family strengthened again, the beginning must be awareness of the problem. To this end, the Joint Economic Committee report provides an important service to the nation.

Star Parker is president of the Center for Urban Renewal and Education and author of the new book “Necessary Noise: How Donald Trump Inflames the Culture War and Why This is Good News for America.” Readers can respond to Star’s column by emailing [email protected]


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Merry Hitchens (@guest_1032409)
1 year ago

The decline of most of the values can really be viewed from many angles. Just depends on what sin, rule, a socially unacceptable event you want to justify. The Bible is a book of history and it includes social edicate, a set of rules Commandments, how we should discipline, treat each other, even how we should govern. Life would be simple if we followed them. Greedy people have gained power and have constantly revising laws, and life situations to boost themselves financially. The persons trying to do right himself and others have tired from the constant fight. He has become a dying breed. Its easier to go with the flow. As you see today the Bullies are in great numbers. To many good people failed to do anything.

Jack Hall (@guest_1032503)
1 year ago

N133ERS and Spics from south of our border should not be allowed to breed out of control on Welfare, Food Stamps ETC! Give they social services for 6 months to a year and then force them to work or get NOTHING!

Loyd (@guest_1032515)
Reply to  Jack Hall
1 year ago

Mr Hall i agree 100%.l Man was not designed to set on his A++.

catherine finnegan (@guest_1032732)
Reply to  Jack Hall
1 year ago

Why a year? My grandparents and mother were immigrants to this country and worked hard to make the move happen without help from anyone. Why are we willing to take taxpayer dollars from my grown children to give to someone for free?

Edward (@guest_1034824)
Reply to  Jack Hall
1 year ago

Jack… Niggers, really!

Marv (@guest_1033645)
1 year ago

You can find many of the answers you seek in the Saul Alinsky book, “Rules for Radicals”, in which he lays out a 10-point plan for taking over the USA from within. It specifically requires the removal of religion, moral values, the family structure, loyalty to God & country, and restructuring of the education system and the entertainment industry. Hillary wrote her law school thesis on Alinsky, while being in personal contact with him, and Obama was trained by Alinsky as a “community organizer”.

Edward (@guest_1034817)
1 year ago

Saul Alinsky, George Soros and Obama… these people are demonic. America’s people who believe in righteousness need to speak Loud and Clear… we must not be deceived!!

Christiann (@guest_1034949)
1 year ago

Prayer, God and the Bible must be put back into schools and in public!!



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